If you’re planning to become involved with an Aries romantically, my first piece of advice is to get ready for an amazing experience. Passion, vivaciousness and an extraordinary level of drive marks their personalities and, if you can’t keep up with them, they’re going to leave you behind, quick smart!
If you happen to be an Aries and you’re reading this you’ll know exactly what I’m talking about. Being ruled by active and sexual Mars, you reflect these qualities 100 per cent. Passion is one of your trademarks and pretty well expresses who you are, not just in the bedroom but in your life as a whole. There is no use beating about the bush when saying that sex is of primary importance to you, so any partner of Aries will have to get used to this from the outset of a relationship with you.
Over and above this, your marriage and romantic destiny is strongly governed by Venus and Libra, which happen to govern the seventh zone for Aries. This further accentuates your sensuality, sociable nature and aesthetic attitude, especially in your choice of partners. You need someone who is classy, passionate and loving to fulfil your emotional needs.
Aries love to feel they can showcase the person they love to the world and take great pride in their relationships. You’ll attract many partners in your life due to the combined influence of Mars and Venus and will be selective in your choice of ‘the one’. You are attracted to and need to prove your prowess, especially if you are a man and born under this sign.
Part of the thrill for you is ‘the chase’ in love. You love competition as well, so in some ways, the partner who plays hard to get will appeal to you. If someone is competing with you for the hand of that special person you have your eye on, then the stakes are higher and you’ll go the extra mile to prove you are better, more passionate and more appealing than anyone on this planet.
Unfortunately, this particular attitude will cause problems for some Aries because the chase turns into an unending series of casual affairs. At the heart of this is your desire to be loved and to prove that you are bigger and better than others. It’s important for you to get in touch with yourself and find your own inner security to make your relationships fulfilling and, more importantly, enduring.
If you have a partner who is vital, spontaneous, loving, and loyal, you reciprocate their love and affection and want to share the adventure of life and sexual intimacy with them well into your old age. You also like to share your social and professional life with the one you choose. You want someone who will get behind you in your work and serve your eager ambitions.
You work long and hard and may often be conspicuously absent from the home scene in trying to achieve your goals and provide for your family. You need someone who understands your motivation for doing so.
Your love is ardent. Just like Vincent van Gogh who, to prove his love to the one he was enamoured by, cut off his ear as a gift to her. Like him, you’re prepared to prove your affection and loyalty to the one to whom you are dedicated.
Another aspect of an Arian in love is your protective instinct. You are imbued with a great amount of courage and never let anything deter you from protecting those you care for. You don’t back down when you think you are right and would even lay down your life for your loved ones.
If you choose to have children your Aries character is just as youthful and playful as theirs. You can relate to kids quite easily, being child-like yourself. Your spouses will often wonder whether you’re not just another one of the kids in the household because you never seem to grow old. You are playful and have a great sense of humour and love to share fun times with your partner. By developing empathy and passion in your intimate relationships, your Aries character will grow and find even greater fulfilment in the realm of love.
Lethargic and torpid candidates need not apply! To put the record straight, a romantic attachment with Aries entails an arduous round-the-clock commitment, with gallons of mindfulness, physical energy and creative reciprocation. Aries lovers leave no room for meandering. When a partner invests 100 per cent in their relationship with you, they naturally expect a life of exhilaration, verve and love in return. You take this seriously and push your limits to colour life with exuberance and contentment in every possible way.
With Mars ruling your personality and being the driving force behind your birth sign, it stands to reason why sex has such a critical stronghold in your relationships. The words lethargic and torpid in the first paragraph also refer to your lover in the bedroom. Be prepared to witness your relationship crumble if your lover exhibits traits such as these. You need an imaginative lover between the sheets, someone to gratify your smallest sensual yearning and explore your hidden fantasies. Having such a lover will bind the relationship and gratify both of you.
Aries spend their early years playing the field and toying with a multitude of possibilities. They often shy away from the prospect of a new partnership at the cost of being misjudged as shallow or commitment phobic. That's not altogether true; they like to filter out the wrong choices to get to the right one sooner.
You glorify the love of your life, Aries, and derive immense pride from your relationships. Due to the collective influence of Mars and Venus, you naturally attract many partners but are selective in your choice of the 'one'. You are also attracted to and driven by a fierce desire to prove your prowess, especially if you are a man born under this sign.
Despite this, Aries, you make an ideal marriage partner as your world revolves around your family and loved ones, who you value above anything else. People mistakenly think that you are driven towards material benefits and acquiring the best in life, but they don't realise that this is the way you prove yourself to the ones you love. Highly protective towards family, you maintain a vigilant guard over them, preventing the world from intruding into your territory. That's just who you are, Aries!