Scorpio happens to be the eternal lover of the zodiac, and this holds true for both men and women. You're the iconic epitome of seduction, and once you choose to give your heart to someone, you love them to no end. This I can vouch for, and so would peers and laypeople alike.
As a native of Scorpio you are probably well aware of your sexuality, even well before puberty, but may not have understood what this was. You have a sense of boy–girl relationships because sexuality, sensuality, and transformation are the keywords of your star sign. Once you arrived at puberty and discovered the meaning of this energy, it was as if a torrential flood of passion, love, lust and intensity had been unleashed. I only hope you’ve learned to direct this energy well because you are by far the most complex lover of the zodiac.
Scorpios can either be sensually intimate or cold and unapproachable. It’s important for you to use sexuality as the transformative power to help you grow spiritually. You have an instinctive urge to explore this part of life and nature.
You like to keep matters of sex, love and relationships secretive. But, with those you love you can be extremely demonstrative and affectionate. You need someone who can match the intensity of your love and overt nature. You’re extreme once you give your heart to someone and the one thing you detest more than anything is being with someone who is insipid, half-hearted and shallow. You can’t understand how others can’t feel the depths of love as you do. You must understand that you are in a unique position and that you are the exception rather than the rule.
Due to this, you may not always find it easy in your search for that special soulmate. You have to exercise patience and will probably have to go through many relationships until the first one of this special calibre comes your way. Scorpio is not only faithful but is prepared to die for their love. This again reflects the depth and intensity of your passion.
Once the opportunity to engage yourself in a meaningful relationship presents itself, you become extremely attached to that person. They become the object of worship and most of your activities become centred on them. You want to love them, nourish them, support them and you may even want to direct their lives. This can be the beginning of problems for you because your love can sometimes be seen as irrational and overwhelming. Be gentle and move slowly once you meet your soulmate. Don’t rush things. Slowly bring them around to your way of love.
There is an extreme side to your nature that is exhibited when you feel moody or a little depressed. You can withdraw like a tortoise withdrawing into its shell. When you’re angry or disappointed with someone, your means of punishing them is your silence. A wall of ice is how some would describe your tactics of disengaging in this situation. You must learn to speak about how you feel, especially if you’re upset, as this will not only lessen your internal burden but also foster a better communication with your spouse or lover.
The signs of Cancer, Pisces, Virgo and Capricorn are the better signs of compatibility and these individuals will understand your varied and sometimes difficult ways. Your opposite star sign Taurus will act as a balance in many areas but may at times be just as inflexible as yourself. You will feel satisfied in relationships with any of the people born under these star signs.
Scorpio men and women make some of the best homemakers and family life is important to them. You and your partner will spend a lot of time creating and nurturing each other and your children. Scorpio is naturally inclined to protect the people they love. There are few star signs that possess as much tenacity as you in doing whatever it takes to provide a safe haven for your family. Against great odds, you'll create a wonderful home life for those under your care.
Overall Scorpio has a strong principle-based approach to love and relationships and, if you’re able to manage some of the deeper and extreme sides of your personality, you should be able to enjoy a fulfilling life of love and passion for many years to come.
When you're in love, you treat it like a celebration. Far from seeming like a routine, the essence of love is a transformative creative desire that inspires you to bond on an almost spiritual level. You want love to permeate through your mind and body and reach the heights of ecstasy.
Scorpios get their ultimate thrill from testing their ability to charm. They do this by assessing how many people they can seduce. In short, romance is a way of measuring your magnetism and appeal. Even if you are in a devoted relationship, you're constantly probing to see whether or not you've maintained your 'edge'.
Though Scorpios are generally secretive, love and romance are altogether different. You're an enormously demonstrative lover and demand reciprocation. Being the most 'sexual' sign of the zodiac, you possess innate vitality and enthusiasm and can be emotionally tumultuous in love, factors that must be borne in mind by your prospective lover. Though your personality may throw up some exciting challenges, love can be immensely cathartic for both you
and your lover. In short, there's never a dull moment with you, Scorpio. It's one heck of a joyride!
The intensity with which you plunge into love affairs may terrify potential lovers. You make a commitment only when you've assessed all angles and know exactly where you stand, and if you sense unresponsiveness on the other end, you waste no time in moving on. Superficiality is not your thing.
Scorpios are charming and flirtatious in a very suave way, and when it comes to commitment, their devotedness is hard to beat. Scorpion lovers exhibit superlative sincerity and adoration, and they celebrate their lovers completely. They do all in their power to see their partner contented. Consider yourself fortunate if you are in a relationship with a Scorpio, and ensure that you honour their commitment just as they do.
If you take their fidelity for granted, rest assured that grave consequences will follow. Not only will Scorpio withdraw their love, they can be vengeful ex-lovers as well. Irrespective of how much they invested in the relationship, they will find a way of getting back at you. Unfortunately, you'll just have to deal with these darker elements of your Scorpio ex-lover.
When it comes to envy, you'd better be careful. Jealousy fuels your inherent insecurities and vulnerabilities. Unless you find creative ways of plugging this emotion, your relationship is bound to
collapse right before your eyes. True joy in love stems from trust. Allow your partner some breathing space and bestow on them the same independence that you demand from them.
You partner must envision growing in love with you. You expect them to be at their best, look their best and gratify all your desires. If your partner respects this about you, you too should reciprocate their commitment. When real, Scorpio love is supreme.
Your sullenness may often be over the most inconsequential and inexplicable reasons. You like to silently withdraw and mull over the past without verbalising your thoughts. Under acute stress you may emotionally collapse, suffocating those you care about. Learn to initiate dialogue and vent a fraction of what you feel. Allow your partner to be a part of your life; reach out to them and show that you believe in them.
Other water signs like Pisces and Cancer exhibit similar moodiness and can cope with your emotional shifts. However, your opposite star, Taurus, which is an earth sign, can balance your extremes by mellowing your overall intensity.