If you're dating a Gemini, you will need to provide some stimulating conversation. If you can't do this, save yourself the time and leave now. If you are the sort of person who wants a full-on relationship after saying 'hello', then Gemini is not for you either. Geminis can appear casual in relationships, but this is because they want to develop a friendship before moving on to a more serious partnership.
Love comes naturally to Gemini, both men, and women, because communication is at the heart of human relationships. Connecting with others is the strong point of your star sign. Gemini is an air sign which rules the head rather than the heart and this does however, tend to present you with some pretty significant challenges in the realm of romance.
You see, love is a heart thing and deals primarily with the fee ling part of your nature. This to most Geminis is a little hard to reconcile with the never-ending filtering mechanism of thought. You tend to process your feelings through your mind and find yourself second-guessing how you feel about others all the time. It’s not that you don’t crave those beautiful emotional experiences and the feelings that come with uniting your mind, body and soul with another, but you just can’t help thinking about relationships rather than being in them.
My best advice to you as your astrologer is to try hard when you’re involved with someone to feel the experience rather than to think about it. You’ll immediately become relaxed and will start to experience a part of your nature that has been submerged for so long. This obviously means trusting your feelings and not worrying about losing control. This is tied in with your need for freedom and independence. Unconsciously you have a fear of losing your personal freedom and space and this also ties in with the big “C” word – commitment. This is more an issue with men born under Gemini.
You’ll never have a problem making friends and your social life will be extremely busy, that’s for sure. You’re always at the top of anyone’s invitation list whether it’s an engagement party, workplace function or a get-together with a group of friends who just want to chill out. They know without doubt that your company will make the event memorable.
Because of your changeable personality and your love of variety loving you find it hard to stick to one relationship, especially in the earlier part of your life. You love the experience of trying many different things and that’s fine if you simply want to gain a broader view of human nature. But in a committed romance this attitude must be surrendered in the best interests of the relationship. This will undoubtedly be a challenge for you.
Love to you means feeling happy to express yourself independently – intellectually, physically and emotionally. Fantasising also plays an important role in your life and is part of who you are. You’ll need someone with whom you can trust these feelings with.
The soul mate for Gemini needs to understand and encourage their interests and ambitions. For you, a marriage partner needs to be someone who aspires to the same sorts of interesting life objectives. Couch potatoes need not apply!
You’re sometimes a little cynical and this is a game to you but others find it offensive. From your vantage point, you see this as a way helping others to improve, to rise to the occasion and become as good as they can be. Please try to understand that others need space and time to reach the dizzy heights of your Gemini standard. Bear in mind that humans have their frailties and you’re no exception either. This will help your relationships immensely.
Likewise, you have a tendency to impose your intellectual viewpoints on others and in the extreme can come across as a person who is a harsh judge of others and their differing opinions. This is your form of personal entertainment but it can be a little uncomfortable for those who don’t know you well. It’s sometimes better to listen than talk so you get to know each other better.
The planet Mars rules your friendships which indicate your loyalty and passion. You have a great deal of energy and when you consider someone a friend you’ll sacrifice a lot for them. At the end of the day, your romance factors indicate a favourable outcome for you but you must learn to stick to one person once you have satisfied your almost insatiable need for novelty.
A Gemini lover needs to connect with someone on an intellectual level before going any further. They want a friendship to develop, and they're not afraid to ask the hard questions in an effort to establish what makes you tick. In love, Gemini may exhibit a possessive streak, but this is unusual. Boredom is a romance killer, so if you want a relationship with this star sign, you better have some witty one-liners or read up on a subject that Gemini is interested in.
At their best, Geminis can be joyful, good-natured, broadminded, experi- mental, radiant, friendly, enthusiastic, flexible and gentle. At their worst they are unreliable, fickle, insincere, self-focused, restless, critical and temperamental.
Geminis have a great sense of humour, which sometimes gives the impression that their conversational style is a little superficial, but this is not so. You may even think they are not interested in you, but don't judge them too quickly. This is just their way of getting to know you.
If you are a Gemini, you can be a romantic challenge to any potential mate and a mystery as well. Your face is never blank and your expres- sion is either lit from within or eroded by depression and moodiness. In addition to this, your emotions are always active.
Gemini natives are children of the air and they need to feel free to wander, both mentally and physically. More often than not, Gemini, you may find yourself lost and looking for the one who will fill that void in your heart.
Geminis generally marry for passionate love as well as exciting and meaningful communication. You will sweep aside the advice of older and wiser people and go where your heart takes you. Those governed by Gemini are among the lucky few who know the deep expression of being truly 'in love'.
A Gemini lover can be caring and thoughtful, but they will run to the hills if they feel the partnership has reached a humdrum existence. However, if they find a partnership to be whole and complete, then he or she will be the most dynamic and loyal of mates.